Catching Up...

It's been over five months since my last blog and A LOT has happened.



Dale and I took our annual trip to Vegas the beginning of May to celebrate our 2nd wedding anniversary and my 32nd birthday. We had a great time as usual. This year, we had our anniversary dinner at The Eiffel Tower Restaurant. It was wonderful and I highly recommend it. My favorite is still the food at Top of the World at the Stratosphere . It's the best! I also won a $1400 jackpot at Sam's Town!!!

Kolby graduated from Amarillo High in May. It was an incredibly emotional time for all of us. Dale and I only had six "full time" years with him where most parents have eighteen and six just wasn't long enough! He started Amarillo College the day after his eighteenth birthday in August and is doing great. He texted me this morning to tell me that he made a 91 on his second English paper. It was also his second A and in his most difficult subject. I've enjoyed watching him mature and grow over the past couple of months. I love him so much.

On June 24th I had a total abdominal hysterectomy. The first two weeks were hell! I was in the hospital for three days. While I was in the hospital, I found out that I was allergic to morphine. My whole body itched like crazy and I couldn't stop scratching. When the head nurse told me she needed to take me off my morphine drip I was so upset. Though I was itching like CRAZY, I was so scared to give up my easily accessible pain medication. The nurse reassured me that the vicatin she planned on giving me in pill form would be even better than the morphine. I must admit it was in the beginning! Unfortunately, I did not realize that a side effect of vicatin is constipation; serious constipation! Two days out of the hospital I was so nauseated and FEARED throwing up since my stomach was full of stitches. Thankfully I began taking some good meds and the only side effect was sleep... yeah! I quit taking the vicatin and once again questioned how in the world can anyone become addicted to drugs??? The side effects are enough to kill any kind of curiosity.

Five weeks after surgery I went to Las Vegas with two of my sisters for a week. We had such a great time!! And after lying down for 4 weeks, I was ready. We went out with the idea of doing what we wanted when we wanted and not committing to anything. We hit all the places that we'd never been, but had wanted to go. I recommend Firefly, a tapas bar on Paradise -- great food, great drinks, great atmosphere. I also took my sisters to the Double Down Saloon. It's a local, gothic bar that's referred to as the happiest place on earth and it's one of Dale's favorite places to go in Vegas. It's been featured on the Travel Channel twice; once with Samantha Brown and the other with Anthony Bourdain. Their house drink is called --get ready-- Ass Juice. I know, I know... gross! But it really is quite tasty!
I came home without any big winnings, but don't care. It was almost perfect. The only thing that could have made the trip better was if Taryl (my other sister) could have gone with us.

It's been three and a half months since my surgery. I keep hearing that I will feel "back to normal" again in 6 to 12 months. I try not to think about the time frame and just take life day to day.

What I have to look forward to:

• Kolby completing his first year of college
• full recovery from surgery
• taking 2 classes at WT so I can complete my intern hours for my LPC
• taking classes at AC to become a licensed substance abuse counselor

Until next time...

Ode to Alcohol

I have discovered over the last ten years that I have a love/hate relationship with Alcohol. I love Friday afternoons with my girls at Leal's Mexican Cantina. We come in about 3:30, the place is empty and our precious server Amanda, a cute curly haired blonde, runs to our table with Michelob Ultras in hand. (When you drink as many as we do, you have to look after your carb intake! Thank you America for your ridiculous obsession with weight and dieting! I appreciate the fact that you have thought of us drinkers, as well.) Amanda happily serves us b/c she knows within 2 hours our moods have evolved from hate the world (a.k.a. work) to love (a.k.a. whatever) which translates to her as tip... big tip.

With each birthday that passes, I am reminded how "not young" I am anymore. My one afternoon of drinks takes me all week to recover. This is where the "hate" comes in. I hate the fact that I can't stay up all night (even if I have no desire to do that anymore), touch up the makeup, and go into work looking young and fresh and receiving compliments on how "cute" I am. I hate that one day a week of drinking requires that I go to the gym every other morning at 5:00 am to sweat my butt off so I don't have an even bigger beer belly. I hate that if I drink one glass of wine to many that I am in bed the entire next day telling myself what a loser I am.

So why do I drink you ask? Because I love the taste! (That's also when you know you're getting old.) I love ice cold bottled beer, bloody marys, twisted lime gin and tonics, martini bars, oaky Merlot and Cabernet, a glass of Chardonnay on a hot summer day, bushwackers on the beach, pina coladas for breakfast in Vegas, and introducing Yucka to friends.

Yucka (a.k.a. Yumma) is a tasty concoction introduced to me by a precious friend who knows her alcohol. This is a lovely drink that we often save for our long weekends in the mountains, but can be enjoyed anywhere. You take a can of limeade and dump it in a pitcher. Fill the limeade can with Vodka and pour into the pitcher as well. Fill the rest of the pitcher with Sprite (or Sprite Zero for dieters) and ENJOY!

Thirsty anyone? What is your drink/drinks of choice past or present?

Spring Break

As an educator, I look forward to random adventures over spring break. A couple of years ago, I was off to Austin for the South by Southwest Film Festival and finished the week at a dude ranch in Bandera, Texas. Last year, I was in Little Rock with my sister visiting family, shopping, and doing lots of eating.

This year, I was sick... so sick. The Monday before spring break I started feeling bad: body aches, nasal congestion, and a terrible headache. After spending the week doped up on every kind of Sudafed they carry at Wal-greens and it not doing a thing, I turned to the doctor's office on Thursday night. When I left I had a shot in the booty and a fist full of prescriptions... well, two prescriptions anyway. From Friday, the last day of school before spring break, until Thursday I layed on the couch while going through two boxes of Puffs Plus with lotion and watching reruns on Bravo and VH1. I am still fighting headaches and occasional dizzy spells from a stopped up ear, but at least I can breathe in time to go back to school. Yeah!

I hope your spring break was better than mine... please share.

It's that time again..

the dreaded TAKS testing season. Yesterday I spent the day with 4th grade students who were taking the Writing TAKS test. These 9 year olds began shortly after 8:00 am. They worked diligently until 3:00 pm with two ten minute breaks and a 25 minute lunch break in between. At 3:00 pm, students lucky enough to have finished were quietly dismissed as many other 3rd, 4th and 5th grade children sat in their classrooms continuing to work.

At 4:00, I received a call from my other elementary school asking me to come quickly because there was an emergency. Twenty minutes later I walked into the second school building to find a frantic mother and irritated child waiting on the counselor. Both seemed distraught by the 5th grade (high stakes) reading test that the child had just completed. "What if she fails?" the mother asked me as she pulled me to the side. "I think she rushed. She has test anxiety. She's brilliant. She reads on a 12th grade level, but when she gets nervous she can't concentrate. What if she fails?!" As the mother was talking, many thoughts fogged my head, but the loudest most sarcastic was, "I wonder where she gets the high anxiety from?" I know, not nice, but I am tired. I quickly brought myself back. Remember, it's the dreaded TAKS testing season. After visiting with the child alone and listening to the ten year old tell me how well she did, I must admit I was completely confused. Mom's saying one thing and child is saying the opposite. This tends to be the norm in my line of work.

At 5:15, I walked down to the main office to check on any children who still may be testing. That's right, still testing - about 15. At 6:00 the pizza arrived for the 6 children still working: one fifth grader and five fourth graders. Those of us who were still there (two fifth grade teachers, three fourth grade teachers, two administrators, two custodians, one secretary, one specialized teacher, and one counselor) did our best to support these precious children by laughing and being silly if only for a short amount of time. At 6:30, with full bellies the children went back to work. At 7:50 pm the last test was handed in. A fourth grade boy finished his writing TAKS test and it only took him 12 hours.

What are we doing? As a counselor, I hear from the children, parents, teachers, and administration. No one is happy with this system and many seem to have reached their breaking points. I love education and I love the helping profession, but I think I just might be a happier, healthier person if I were some where else. "Would you like fries with that" doesn't sound too bad.

So... how do we fix this "No Child Left Unharmed?"